hi @foscraft!
Does this help? See the linked spaCy discussions post too for more details.
Also you may want to search more in spaCy discussions or spacy-llm discussions pages for tips and similar examples.
For example, for your out-of-memory issue:
Since your problem is really a spaCy issue, you'll likely find a lot more helpful posts there (let alone the spaCy core dev team answers questions there).
Hope this helps!